I got only a 30 day V.I.P membership because I wanted to see if it was worth the $14.00(It Is). And I'm not being able to get on so is my membership still getting wasted?

You'll be reimbursed for the amount of days you've been unable to join the server. Let's stick to one topic when discussing this issue; http://sneyersul.eu/index.php/forums/ban-appeals/bothomas44-1

Ok This has been happening for about four of five days.